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I'm in a bit of a quandary, and I'm hoping the Walk Away community can help me out. The links on walkawayers.org are a copy of a list that Foxmaiden made of linkworthy sites. What I put up was a near 100% copy of the list that she made, cutting out the sites that were defunct. There was only one active site that I pulled, and I wanted to get some feedback from everyone here at WA before I decided what to do with it. And this isn't just about one link, it's also about how we will handle contentious information for the site. Disclaimer: Before I say anything else, let me make it clear that nothing I'm writing is derogatory towards Foxmaiden in any way. She did a fantastic job of collecting links to high quality sites. Without her help, there would be nothing of value on the site right now. She was the first to step up and put work into a new WA site, and I owe her a great many thanks. Thank you, Foxmaiden! So, now that that's clear, included with the section that lists Utilitarianism was also a link for Objectivism. I pulled the link because I had some reservations about putting it up. I like Ayn Rand's writings and agree with much of her philosophy. I think that her devotion to reason is admirable, even if she wasn't always able to live up to the Objectivist ideals. My concern is less with her philosophy that with the attitude of many of its adherents. In discussions with others interested in her philosophy, something always nagged me about the way they acted and reacted. Something in them reminded me of fundamentalist thinking, and I never could pin it down until I read Michael Shermer'sWhy People Believe Weird Things. Included with the book is a chapter called "The Unlikeliest Cult: Ayn Rand, Objectivism, and the Cult of Personality", and it puts into better terms what I only felt in my gut. Shermer lists several characteristics of a cult, including:Veneration of the leader: Glorification of the leader to the point of virtual sainthood or divinity.Inerrancy of the leader: Belief that the leader cannot be wrong.Omniscience of the leader: Acceptance of the leader's beliefs and pronouncements on all subjects, from the philosophical to the trivialPersuasive techniques: Methods, from benign to coercive, used to recruit new followers and reinforce current beliefs.Hidden agendas: The true nature of the group's beliefs and plans is obscured from or not fully disclosed to potential recruits and the general public.Deceit: Recruits and followers are not told everything they should know about the leader and the group's inner circle, and particularly disconcerting flaws or potentially embarrassing events or circumstances are covered up.Financial and/or sexual exploitation: Recruits and followers are persuaded to invest money and other assets in the group, and the leader may develop sexual relations with one or more of the followers.Absolute truth: Belief that the leader and/or the group has discovered final knowledge on any number of subjects.Absolute morality: Belief that the leader and/or the group has developed a system of right and wrong thought and action applicable to members and nonmembers alike. Those who strictly follow the moral code become and remain members; those who do not are dismissed or punished.I found many of the above qualities in Objectivists that I have encountered, and Rand's original inner circle of followers experienced much of the above (as reported by Nathanial Branden, Barbara Branden, and others who were excommunicated). Yes, there have been exceptions among the Objectivists that I have met, but many acted like cult devotees. I know that Rand's books and articles have been influential in many ex-fundamentalists' walk away, and I want the largest amount of resources available to anyone beginning or continuing a walk away journey. What I don't want is to lead someone away from fundamentalist Christianity and right into another restrictive group or cult. So, I'm still left in a quandary as to whether the link should go up. I would appreciate any feedback from the group on how to proceed. I do realize that this is a relatively minor issue. People who are interested in Objectivism or Ayn Rand are likely to find her work whether I put up a link or not. The Walk Away site won't suffer greatly by the absence of one resource, nor will it succeed in its mission by one mere link or article. But it's very likely that issues like this will appear again. There will be material posted that others may disagree with or find questionable. I'm not sure how we should respond to controversial material for the site. I hope that we can figure something out together, as I don't have all the answers by myself. I want the new Walk Away site to be a community effort rather than my own tiny kingdom. Looking forward to your responses, Brak

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(Date Posted:01/31/2005 1:22 AM)

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What I don't want is to lead someone away from fundamentalist Christianity and right into another restrictive group or cult. So, I'm still left in a quandary as to whether the link should go up. I would appreciate any feedback from the group on how to proceed.




Yeah I agree and feel that walkawayer's are at their most vulnerable.


I also appreciate the need for 'female' philosophers to make it that simple. For me I can at times be annoyed with people who constantly refer to Nietzsche and I could equally point fingers at his sexism and   racism. But Yes I agree its the devotees that can elevate anyone or anything to a cult status and who are probably more responsible. Chuckle....both Rand and Nietzsche are dead.


I've read a bit about Ayn Rand and quickly lost interest. It doesn't seem all that 'enticing' and perhaps just on a web page selection basis it could easily fail to meet your high standards. WInk..wink...


Perhaps the solution could also be the old 'disclaimer' as you have put into practise yourself here. It works well and gives enough explaination.


However if you want my vote........thumbs down to Rand! 


  When in doubt chuck it out!

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For me I can at times be annoyed with people who constantly refer to Nietzsche and I could equally point fingers at his sexism and racism.






Yup, Nietzsche was pretty damn sexist. Guilty as charged. I do give him a little leeway because he live in the latter half of the 19th century. He did have a lot of other good things to say, but when it came to women he was pretty far off base. It's nice having a philosopher I like also being fallible.

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(Date Posted:02/01/2005 12:33 AM)

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Yup, Nietzsche was pretty damn sexist. Guilty as charged. I do give him a little leeway because he live in the latter half of the 19th century. He did have a lot of other good things to say, but when it came to women he was pretty far off base. It's nice having a philosopher I like also being fallible.



I nearly wrote the name Jessuss instead of Nietzsche. Devotee's of Jessus become very defensive if you critique their 'top man' as well.


I personally take it as a given that all philosopher's are fallible. I think once people start elevating the status of men and women, that's when it becomes cultish - adoration. (as per  list)  That and taking it personally if I or anyone would dare to question or poke holes in the words of said thinker/writer.


Brak is asking for ideas on ways to deal with differences or  controversial material for the site.  I've seen other site's include subheadings for the questionable stuff. I don't think Nietzsche is questionable I quite like the ideas but other's may not. Rand is verging on the dangerous as far as I'm concerned. The devotee's on the web seem to have already taken off with the formation of a cult thing.  But I think anyone or anything can be - look at the Elvis freaks - do we avoid his music because of it. Its not easy but I agree with Brak no big deal if Rand is left out.


I haven't look at the site again recently but that's another point in question - how to deal with the inclusion of christian material? Who is going to say which is the right and good and which is not? Boy.......<shakes head> this is difficult!

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In exchange for obedience, Christianity promises salvation in an afterlife; but in order to elicit obedience through this promise, Christianity must convince people that they need salvation, that there is something to be saved from. Christianity has nothing to offer a happy person living in a natural, intelligible universe. If Christianity is to gain a motivational foothold, it must declare war on earthly pleasure and happiness, and this, historically, has been its precise course of action. In the eyes of Christianity, woman(man) is sinful and helpless in the face of God, and is potential fuel for the flames of hell. Just as Christianity must destroy reason before it can introduce faith, so it must destroy happiness before it can introduce salvation.

-- George H Smith, Atheism: The Case Against God

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I would think we want to keep the site's focus on supporting the walk-away process, and not on  recommending any certain philosophy, political persuasion, etc.  That is up to the individual to work out for him/herself.  If the site you are talking about specifically "preaches" objectivism amid it's advise to people leaving xtianity, then I would say leave it out.  If the info we are interested in is located on a separate page on the site, and concentrates on xtianity more than objectivism, we could link to it but provide a disclaimer that we are not  promoting the rest of the website.  This, of course, goes for any other ideas and beliefs, not just objectivism. 

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(Date Posted:02/07/2005 8:46 AM)

Thanks for your feedback. I was already pretty much decided on leaving that link out, and your responses finalized it. For now, it's out.



I would like to see, eventually, more on the site about different philosophical schools. The type of critical thinking required to study philosophy is the same needed to critically study fundamentalist thinking. I do think that reference material to various respected philosophical schools would be useful for critical thinking. But that's a bit down the road.



Snakechic is hits on where I was headed with my original question:



I haven't look at the site again recently but that's another point in question - how to deal with the inclusion of christian material? Who is going to say which is the right and good and which is not? Boy....... this is difficult!




Yep, I think this will be the really tough one. I don't have an answer for that one, but the consensus model we've used so far seems to be working. I just hope it works as we get to the tougher stuff.

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I'm not an Ayn Rand fan, in fact I think she was a nut. But she does have some interesting thoughts that are of value to an ex-fundie.



I think the whole thing can be dealt with by posting a general disclaimer that the site doesn't necessarily endorse all of the views of the sources it links.

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