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RE:How many different churches have you been to (either as a member of non member)?
(Date Posted:04/24/2008 16:55:34)
I didn't do the convert/reconvert thing. I just stayed within the charismatic fundamentalist sphere and attended various churches over the years. I guess I was regular attender of about 5 churches in all, which isn't too many, but I also regularly visited quite a few churches during the time my mother's hubby was filling pulpits or doing special minsitry appearances.
The biggest change I made was the switch from being a member of a militaristic,super-controlling cult like church (the ones that stalked me) to a more easy-going, "love" focused congregation. As far as moral messages go, not much changed,possibly slightly. The softer church was actually more politically involved than the cult. They were heavily right-wing and enjoyed endorsing certrain candidates, whereas the cult didn't seem to care much about politics, preferring to do "war in the heavenlies" and not waste time with civilian affairs. My personal opinions changed too, but were out of sync with the churches I attended. I became slowly more liberal during my time in the right wing church. Go figure
For some strange reason, in whatever church I was in or had any relationship with, I almost always ended up being privy to whatever unwholesome stuff was going on within the congregations or with the leadership. It always seemed that if someone was going to show their ugly side, they showed it either to or around me/my family. Being in a minsitry family also put me in a position of hearing about people's problems and "sins". After several years, I finally allowed it dawn on me that these righteous people were just as failure-prone, depressive, lustful, prideful,etc. as anyone else in the world.
I became pretty tired of the same old same old as far as churches go. Yeah, there were a few small differences mostly based on rural vs. urban areas, but for the most part, they were cut outs. Each one had a similar formula, similar decor, the same songs, the same stereotypical "types" of people...even the leadership families seemed to have a similar look/style of dress. I guess it's like any scene. Whether it's punk rock, new age,biker, or whatever. There will be similarities. It just started to seem so tacky and sickening to me because it was not a scene I wanted to be associated with anymore.
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RE:How many different churches have you been to (either as a member of non member)?
(Date Posted:04/25/2008 07:25:57)
That last paragraph is rather interesting. I'm wary of any scene that demands total commitment and puts people into boxes while showing animosity towards outsiders . I had enough of it in fundyism and I'm wary of it in anything else I get involved in. Got involved with the indie music scene but liking the music is as far as it goes, I don't follow the fashions, don't watch the same genre of movies as most of them do which is mostly violent thrillers whereas I prefer art house, comedy and family genres and I also listen to other types of music such as world music. Plus I don't see the need to be abusive on forums as many of them are or drink alcohol heavily.
When it comes to the new age and paganism I take a pick and mix approach. I don't believe in fairies though it would be nice to and I don't perform rituals. Complementary therapies are OK if they benefit you otherwise leave alone.
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RE:How many different churches have you been to (either as a member of non member)?
(Date Posted:04/25/2008 15:00:29)
I'm the same way, I guess. Thanks to my xperience in fundamentalism, I'm wary of joining groups that ask for too much commitment or that seem to discourage individuality. I'm attracted to some aspects of New Age, but I do draw the line at (as you mentioned) fairies and the like. I appreciate things like yoga and meditation and some other healing therapies from a health-improvement point of view. I get uncomfy when I encounter people who are deep into the "spiritual" end of the movement. Those who communicate with spirit guides and things like that. Seems too much like the life I left behind, just with different labels. I don't want to feel that I must swallow the entirety of any one belief system or else.
I think I'm zeal-a-phobic. lol Anytime I see people going overboard in their comittment to something, I get freaked out. I live in Canada and the obsession with hockey worries me. It sounds stupid but people get so serious about it! It's like you HAVE to like hockey , cheer for your home team, etc, or else you're not really canadian. My husband always says "well, at least we're not like places in South America where people riot over soccer games." But just a few days ago, there WAS a hockey riot in Montreal. It looked pretty violent too;cars destroyed, people hurt, riot cops out in force. It proves the point that anything taken too far can be dangerous.
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RE:How many different churches have you been to (either as a member of non member)?
(Date Posted:04/26/2008 01:37:12)
I'm a bit of a 'zeal @ phobe' and what a lovely way to put it. ! I mentioned something similar in one of my earlier post ...describing myself as way more 'intolerant' now after my run in with the penties. Maybe this is a better word!
Has anyone noticed the connection between 'patriotism' and religious ' zeal -o-mania' ? We had a public holiday yesterday for Anzac Day - bloody hell! Worship the fallen comrades with a dawn service and "yay up" Australia then go watch the traditional Anzac Day footy match on TV!
Gawd...the only thing missing was the bloody Fairies!
My hub and I laugh - its as if we have to 'whisper' when we make jokes and scoff about it all. In case we seem 'un australian' ? ( and gawd forbid anyone criticises the local dead hero - twit Steven Irwin or castes aspersions on Bindi his little daughter who has now taken his place - I am so sick of seeing her in the media)
I don't much like that 'yay' team workshops - or group therapy that's been so popular in regard to various health issues either. Great as money making ventures but...!. Most of my friends have been into some form of 'newagey' stuff at one time or the other ..but nothing 'grabbed me' except a bit of buddhist meditation.
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RE:How many different churches have you been to (either as a member of non member)?
(Date Posted:05/04/2008 23:15:38)
I have started attending Quaker meetings. I really like them. Its kinds cool in 2008 east coast USA to sit down in a room with a bunch of people that are not acting like flaming obnoxious assholes and are quiet. There is no bullshit you have to pretend to believe. You just deal with your own spiritual focus ( refferred to as "Inner Light"). What I have realized is that Quakers have been rebelling against religious bullshit for a long time. A church that want you to be an independent thinker? WOW! And the people are smart active people into a lot of interesting things. There is a bit of overhyped happy happy among some of them, but big deal. All in all I plan on regularly attending as its allmost like a vacation from the vicious psychotic real world. What is really funny is that technically I think i can not become an official member because I play cards for part of my income.( even though I am more anti gambling than they are).. not because I am also a satanist!
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For some reason I did not auto log in
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RE:How many different churches have you been to (either as a member of non member)?
(Date Posted:05/08/2008 00:30:19)
Reply to Sunspots (05/04/2008 9:15 PM)
What is really funny is that technically I think i can not become an official member because .....I am also a satanist! |
I'm not taking the piss or anything. What's it like being a satanist.?
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RE:How many different churches have you been to (either as a member of non member)?
(Date Posted:05/08/2008 07:49:42)
boils down to not giving up your power
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RE:How many different churches have you been to (either as a member of non member)?
(Date Posted:05/08/2008 14:54:08)
I've attended a couple Quaker meetings myself. I agree that Quakers are pretty cool people for the most part. They seem to really value social justice. There's no Quaker meeting right near me, but if one were conveniently located, I'd go.
I don't know much about Satanism. Do Satanists believe in or woship satan as an actual person/entity or is it just a philosophy of some kind?
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RE:How many different churches have you been to (either as a member of non member)?
(Date Posted:05/09/2008 00:09:07)
Hell, Look who invented satan!
Xtians define anyone that does not give up power to them as satanic... So Im satanic TO THEM.
Its just so much fun to scare them with their own bullshit.
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